The darkest part of the year is here. As I write this, at almost 3pm CST in December, holiday lights are popping on as daylight fades from view. The sky is gray and has been for a few days now. It’s time for the Winter Solstice, which typically occurs around December 21st, and holds the distinction of being the shortest day and longest night of the year in the Northern Hemisphere. With roots stretching back to the Neolithic period, it celebrates the rebirth of the sun and the promise of returning light and warmth.
As someone who is acutely aware and in need of sunlight, I’ve always looked forward to the Winter Solstice. While the day itself is dark, the movement from darkness to increasing light is hopeful. This time of year is contemplative and cozy, and it allows me time for grounding. After all, “solstice” comes from the Latin “sol” (sun) and “sistere” (to stand still).
I think we could all do with a little time standing still in this world, which seems to move at the speed of light. While I do just that, I give myself the gift of calm, quiet, and reflection. I ask myself the following questions. I share them here to inspire you to take this time for yourself as well.
- What was your biggest impact this year? I spent more time with my kiddos, and I honored the majority of my commitments.
- What are you most proud of? My garden – I was able to position my plants so they will stay healthy, and have the space to establish and grow.
- What do you love about yourself? (dear reader, this one is really difficult for me.) I love my creativity and that I make things I can be proud of.
- What now? Continue to honor commitments. Demonstrate love. Give your best to those who deserve it.
May your efforts at standing still as we end the calendar year bring your focus, love for yourself, and honor for your accomplishments in this big and beautiful world.
About the Author
Betsy Butler (she/her) is a Professional Learning Specialist at Teaching Channel. She holds a B.A. in English, a Master’s in Education, and has been teaching since 1992. Betsy uses her three decades of teaching experience to write and revise our courses while selecting the perfect accompanying texts. Her specialty areas include ELA, special education topics, behavior management, and mental health.
Fun Fact: Betsy’s daily conquest is solving the New York Times crossword puzzle!
